Worried about the demise of civilization? Or the Death of Philosophy? No need to worry, there are a few folks I hang out with that's keeping the torch burning.
A group of friends, dedicated to reading the major works of Western philosophy in sequential order, meets at an apartment in the Upper Haight every Tuesday. The name of this group is
Spinoza's Coat. The group got it's name from a story about the philosopher,
Spinoza. Somebody tried to assassinate Spinoza for his political views. This assassin could only rip his coat. When Spinoza got home, he hung up his ripped coat in order to make the statement:
Human beings are not ready for free thought.
Anyway, I'm a part of Spinoza's Coat, and currently we're reading
Outlines of Skepticism by Sextus Empiricus.
Dinner at Bia's
Before heading to philosophy group last night, I had dinner at
Bia's Wine Bar on 1640 Haight Street and Clayton. My dinner companions, Sharon and Delman, were a study in contrasts. Delman walked in with a huge, red, puffy, winter jacket, and looked like Dig Dug. Sharon had on a nice, biege sweater and long black skirt.
Anyway, when the food came Dave said, "Your salmon! It's so small!" Well, at 15.95, it certainly was small, and was slightly burnt. I could've eaten that bitty piece of salmon in one bite! I almost sent it back. Sharon was quiet about the food most of the time, and knowing the kind of polite person she is, that says a lot.
The decor felt like some European restaurant where you knew the food would be okay, but cheap, too. It wasn't.
Bia's was over-priced for its small portions that tasted just okay. Frankly, I'd never go again.
Questions at Spinoza's Coat
After dinner, I went to philosophy group. Some questions that came up were:
1) How does tranquility (ataraxia) come about when two equipollent arguments are opposed to one another?
2) Is skepticism sophomoric in its continual investigations compared with Plato's notion of sufficient (ikanon) knowledge?
3) What implications does the absence of Truth have for everyday living?
On Relationships and Dating at Club Deluxe
After group, a few of us, Shannon, Matt, and Gania, went to
Club Deluxe for Matt's Birthday drinks. His birthday was actually yesterday but he was working.
The gin martini I ordered had large olives with a slight sheen of ice on top. I love it when ice forms like that on a martini.
Shannon and Gania had Kahlua and creams. They looked pretty delicious.
Matt had a bottle of Sierra Nevada, a pretty fine beer if you ask me.
Somehow the question got onto dating. I blame Shannon: "This guy asked me what I thought about the
dating scene? 'What dating scene,' I went."
I immediately went, "Eww," to show my gut reaction to the guy's question. A dating scene can't be a romantic scene, in my book.
Shannon went on to say, "I feel like I need a big list of questions to ask someone, and to check off each item."
Matt jumped in and said that people weren't like that. By that, I took him to mean that you couldn't reduce a person to a check list. Gania mentioned something about how it's the intangibles that get you hooked on someone.
The conversation went on to topics like:
1) What is the difference between love and lust? And how can you tell?
2) What really is going on when you have strong feelings of attraction that you confuse with love?
The comfy, black vinyl seats in the back could've made our conversation last hours. Deluxe is definitely a place for lounging, chatting, and listening to music.